Sunday, February 9, 2014

Let's Go Get Us a Baby!!

February 2nd: Headed back to Charleston to go meet Katy Ellis!!!

It is officially the day before we meet Miss Katy Ellis! My C-section is scheduled for the morning, we are packed up and ready to head back to Charleston.

Before we left, GrandAnnie presented me with a quilt and pillow that she had made for Katy Ellis. I knew that she would be making a quilt for Katy Ellis, because she had made one for Blakely. I just had not idea how different and special this quilt would be compared to Blakely's.

GrandAnnie had used pastel fabrics and one with small hand prints in it. She then used a stencil of Blakely's hand to quilt the two sides together. I love that she used Katy Ellis' big sister as a part of her quilt. It is unique, but above all I will love to look back and see how small Blakely's hands were when she became a big sister!!

There are 72 hand prints quilting the two sides together!! I know Katy Ellis is going to LOVE this quilt. This will be a keep sake that she keeps for the rest of her life! (P.S. This is also my 9 months pregnant shot! Probably last time you'll catch this girl pregnant! Woohoo!!)

GrandPop had the great idea to enlist Gigi's help with the pillow. Gigi put this beautiful applique and monogram on the fabric GrandAnnie used to make the matching pillow. I am so blessed to have such amazingly talented women in my life! Thank you Gigi and GrandAnnie for all your craftiness! I love all the beautiful memories y'all make for my girls and me!!


Who is ready to become a BIG sister? I can hardly believe it! I feel like she was just our newborn little baby!!

Picking her up for one of the last times for a couple of weeks! One of the things I am most worried about is how my recovery from my C-section will affect Blakely. I won't be able to lift anything heavier than 10 pounds for 2-3 weeks, and I don't want Blakely to perceive this as "Mommy loves Katy Ellis more than me" or "I've been replaced." Pray that I will be able to explain my "boo-boo" to Blakely and that she won't take it personally.

What an amazing visit we have had with GrandAnnie and GrandPop!! Thank y'all so much for EVERYTHING (which is a whole lot) y'all did for my little family this month!! I cannot express to y'all how much it has meant to me and how much stress and worry you helped lift from my shoulders! Y'all are amazing people, grandparents and in-laws!! So thankful I won the in-law lottery when I married Rich!

Last picture as a family of 3!! When we come home, we will be a family of four!!!

Can't wait to bring our girl home!!

Dear Lord, Please keep Katy Ellis and I safe during the surgery and recovery. Help us to trust you with this new life and to honor you with the way that we raise her. She is yours Lord! And we dedicate ourselves to raising her to KNOW you!! Amen.

SNOW DAY

January 29th: Snow in the Carolina's

This actually happened!! It snowed in South Carolina!!! And I almost didn't get to enjoy Blakely's first snow with my girl...

Rich and I had been working in Charleston Monday when the reports started circulating that we "might" get snow on Tuesday/Wednesday. Blakely was staying in Lexington with GrandAnnie and GrandPop while we worked with the plan that I would return after I finished work on Wednesday. On Monday the chance for sleet/freezing rain was so high, that the schools and my office decided to close early on Tuesday at 2pm. Then Tuesday Morning, my office decided that we would be closed for "dangerous road conditions/snow day" on Wednesday. This meant that when I finished work on Tuesday, I would be done until after my maternity leave. Because of his position at the hospital Rich would have to stay downtown, so I would be alone at the townhouse... what to do?

I desperately wanted to be in Lexington to be with my girl in case it snowed, but the dangerous sleet/freezing rain was supposed to start around 2pm as well. So the question became- Do I risk driving in bad conditions 39 weeks pregnant and risk getting stuck on the highway? or Do I risk getting stuck in my townhouse with no Richard and no power? Finally, Rich and I decided it wasn't worth the risk on the road, and it was decided that I would stay in Charleston. I was crushed! The chance of snow for Lexington was up to 90% with possible 2-3 inches of accumulation... I was going to miss Blakely's first snow!!! :(

I called my in-laws to break the bad news, when my amazing father-in-law came to my rescue! They live in Nova Scotia and as a result they drive a 4-wheel vehicle with snow tires!! He immediately jumped in his car and rushed to my rescue. It sleeted the whole way to Lexington, while I prayed for our safety. By the time we arrived in Lexington, the car was covered in ice and snow had just started to fall!! I had made it!!!! And as far as snow days go, Blakely's first one did not disappoint...

Blakely's first glimpse of snow. She loved it and was mystified by it being cold.

Too dry for snowballs.... but super fun to throw anyways.

Blakely chasing GrandAnnie with a "snowball."

She would have played in the snow for hours if we had water proof clothes!!!
Blakely was like a little explorer when she first got outside. She immediately found a stick and used it to "survey" they yard before she took each step. It was like she did not know what lay beneath the snow.
Like true South Carolinians we did not have a sled... so we improvised! With GrandPop's help we were sledding!

GrandPop would pull her down the hill and spin her at the end!! Blakely would giggle and giggle and giggle!!

Sledding

GrandPop was indefatigable!! He would carry her up the hill and then pull her down the hill... over and over and over again!! 

She loved this!! Go GrandPop!!

 

Screaming and giggling the whole was down!! My little winter baby loves the cold.

Real sled! Our awesome new neighbors saw our plight and brought us a sled!! GrandPop finally got to be part of the action.

GrandPop and his girl ready to sled!


....and they are off!!

After the snow, Blakely got to play in Mommy's tub and then GrandAnnie made hot cocoa. Blakely LOVED the hot chocolate.

Cuddling on the couch and watching Disney's Robin Hood.

Then back to the snow!! 39 weeks pregnant and not cold one bit!!

Our snowman "Bob."

More excavating in the back yard. There was easily 3-4 inches of powder! She had snow up to her shins!

Running in the "slush!" There was powder in the morning, but by lunch time it had already started to melt.

Blakely loved "Bob." Every time we pulled up in the drive for the next 2-3 days, Blakely would say "Hi Bob!" Even after all the snow melted, Bob remained. He finally melted after 4 days and 1 newspaper appearance!! Thanks Timmy-D!!

Giving Bob a kiss!

Hug!!


Snow angels in South Carolina are hilarious, because they immediately reveal the grass below!

Examining her handy work! She loved making snow angels!

During our break, I showed Blakely a 15 second video of Banks making snow angels. 2 hours later we were back outside, she laid down in the snow and started making a snow angel all on her own!! Such a smart girl!!



My little adventurer!! Trekking with her stick!


 


We had the best day ever!! We played in the snow, went for a nature walk, build a snowman, sledded, and drank hot chocolate! This was a perfect first snow day, and I KNOW we will be finding some snow for this little snow bunny again soon!

Such a fun day to share with GrandAnnie and GrandPop!! Thank you so much GrandPop and rescuing me from Charleston! This is a day I would NOT have wanted to miss!!

Saturday, February 8, 2014

Birthday Party Update

 
Got a few more great pictures from Blakely's birthday party I just had to share!! It helps to have a professional photographer as a family friend!! Thanks Uncle Timmy-D!!
 
 
Gigi made sure both kiddo's had a balloon at the birthday party. They loved to run with them through the house and squeal. I've said it before and I'll say it again.... why do I even bother getting her fancy toys, when the simplest thing (old boxes, packaging paper, balloons, etc.) make her so happy!

Love that sweet face! Unfortunately so does she! She loves to look at herself in this mirror Gigi and PopPop gave her for her birthday in her dress-up box. I assume it is just a developmental milestone and not vanity since Banks loves to look in the mirror too!


Blakely crowning Mommy as "Queen!" Eventually she'll probably love being a "princess," but for now I think ''queen" is much easier to say!! Love my girlie girl!

This little princess ALWAYS loves a baby doll!


This picture shows some of Blakely's favorite gifts:
-Her activity table- perfect for arts & crafts or a tea party
-Her tea party set
-Room decor for her "Big Girl" room
-Giggle baby
-"Neigh-neigh" outfit

Blakely and her Daddy- This was Daddy's crib when he was a baby that GrandPop (ie Mr. Bill) built for him, and now it is a girl little reading nook where Blakely can play with her stuffed animals and dolls.

The Tober Clan: With this many kids in 1 shot, I am truly surprised we even got this good of a shot! HA! Banks was weeping, Blakely was being pugnacious and I am massively pregnant! Good job Tim!

The Monk Clan

Our little Birthday Girl! Maybe one of the last family shots prior to Katy Ellis!!
Mommy and Daddy love you Birthday girl SO, SO, SO much!! You are an amazing little girl with a brilliant imagination. We cannot wait to see all the things the Lord has in store for your future. It is such a blessing to be your parents!! We love you, Little Girlfriend!!